Posted By bbinns on February 16, 2009

Tina is the mom of the bartender at the gorgeous Double Eagle.
Valentine’s Day, Las Cruces
It is simple serendipity that I find myself
cooling my heels in Las Cruces for three days, not part of a comprehensive travel plan. But, since the
world is my lobster, I had best set about cracking it. Last night, I was
in the mood for cheese, but spent waaay too long trying to decide which New Mexican joint would earn my patronage. In the meantime, I stopped in to the
Double Eagle bar for a margarita and met Tina, who was keeping the end of the bar warm and cheerful while
her son Mathew (he prefers Matt) worked behind the bar. Between her job as a psychiatric nurse, and
his law classes at the university,plus this job, it’s about the only time she can find to
hang out with her boy. Tina and I get to talking, as you do, and this Las Cruces native daughter gives me
another hike recommendation, and describes a new
pub called Brigid’s Cross, in Pacheco Hills, that overlooks the Mesilla Valley, and

She reminds me of me, only I'd be wearing jeans.
sounds like a
good place for a sundowner. Tina and I have a blast talking about
Las Cruces and Alamagordo and Ruidoso and I’m reminded of how
vibrant New Mexico’s university towns, like this one, and Albuquerque, can be. After
two margaritas, however, I do not feel like sitting down at a table alone for supper,
cheese-jones or no cheese-jones. Down the road one of my dinner possibilities, Andele, has an outdoor take-out window, so I secure
a beef quesadilla and a side of chile con queso, and head back to watch tv and indulge in a
solo cheese-fest. What’s with chile con queso, though, I gotta ask? In Amarillo in December, it was
neon orange and gelatinous as a supermarket onion dip. At our friend Linda’s house it’s a natural shade of orange, thick and
blissfully elastic with a real-cheese flavor and
fetching pools of hot, dark-orange oil (she
did have it airlifted
every Christmas from Felix’s, in Houston, which is now sadly closed). Here in Las Cruces, this particular chile con queso is
white, sports
tiny chunks of green chile, and is as thin as Campbell’s cream of mushroom soup made with the entire can of water recommended on the label (something I would never do, btw). My night’s repose is
somewhat affected by the bloatedness that a two-cheese dinner will, unavoidably, impart.

If you couldn't smile, you wouldn't make it.
And so,
Valentine’s Day dawns, yawning ahead of me like a chiding challenge: do something
interesting! East of town, on the way back from yesterday’s hike and encounter with a new ghost town, I have spied the
New Mexico Farm and Ranch Museum. A fetching arrangement of
old and rusting farm machinery caught my eye, so today I go back and give it some real time and attention. This is
not, you understand,
one of those roadside attractions (“Meteorite Crater!” “See the Dinosaur Eggs!”) that one comes upon when criss-crossing the west. Former NM
governor Bruce King mobilized a hunk of money and expertise in putting together this spread, which boasts cow-milking demonstrations, a
working blacksmith, the oldest metal bridge in NM,
state-of-the art performance space, an art gallery, and the most profoundly
moving multi-media exhibition I’ve ever had the pleasure of immersing myself in. Photographs, stories, artifacts and, in some cases, the
actual voices of past generations of New Mexicans are cleverly brought together in a hangar-sized hall. From the earliest
attempts to cultivate an unforgiving soil, through hardscrabble land-granters, to

This is what I want for Valentine's Day, k?
thick and glittering rodeo kings and queens of the sixties, I fall in love with some of these
practical, funny, enthusiastic (and long-dead) pioneer types. (This feeds right into my fantasy life—l
eftover from two years at boarding school in Sedona, AZ—as a hard drinkin’ hard ridin’ frontier woman; see
boots in last post.) I am too early for the milking demonstration, and the
blacksmith is on his lunch break, but I do find a compelling pathos in all the stories and scratchy recordings, and also find
a nice beehive oven to add to my gallery (assembled pending the
eventual construction of a wood-burning oven back at the mushroom farm in NY). Ie,
home. Somewhere I will not be for about another five weeks. This
peripatetic life is exciting, but there can be moments of loneliness. Such moments tend to be a
mplified by the sight of scrubby land stretching out, all gold and grey, toward the far horizon. Spending Valentine’s Day alone doesn’t help much, either. Is all of this
really worth it, just to
avoid the Northeast winter? Ask me in about five weeks.
Category: 09, In the West | Write To Me
Tags: cheese, cross-country drive, driving, roadtrip, verde valley school
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